SECRET 1: Know What You Want
Too many guys suffer from the problem of having to “take what they can get.” Women tend to get a lot of suitors coming their way, so they can be a little bit more picky.
When you know what you’re looking for in a partner, you’re not only screening potential candidates, but you’re making a very powerful statement as well.
You’re showing that you’re not desperate. That you are the one with the power because you are doing the judging. And when you’re the one with the power, you’re the one who must be pursued.
SECRET 2: Be The Prize
Being the one pursued means that you have a certain amount of value to others. They want you, for some reason, and it’s now their job to try and get you.
In order for this to happen, you must place a certain value on yourself. You must feel like you are worthy to be pursued by others, and you must communicate this fact with your actions and attitude.
Girls get lots of guys trying to impress them. But it’s the rare guy they want to impress who winds up with them.
SECRET 3: Dress To Impress
Women place a lot of importance on how they look. It’s for this reason that many of them get the male attention they do.
Women understand that what you wear helps to get others to notice you. In fact, because women are so in-tune with fashion, they really tend to notice how a guy dresses.
A man who understands how to cultivate his own appearance and look good will get a lot of attention from women, not just because he looks nice, but because he’s communicating he understands how important appearance is to them.
SECRET 4: Smell Fantastic
All too often, men ignore the sense of smell. They don’t bother to put on cologne or after-shave. But women know that if you’re going to attract someone, you need to appeal to all the senses.
Think about the perfumes women wear that drive you wild and you’ll know just how important smelling good can be.
Wearing a good cologne around a woman can do wonders to make her aroused in your presence.
SECRET 5: Be Interesting
Despite all the physical traits involved in attraction, having nothing but good looks can wear thin quickly. This is why it’s important to be interesting.
Being interesting equates to having something to talk about that the person you are trying to attract can relate to.
Being up to date on current events, pop culture, music, gossip, and any number of things can help a woman feel interested in spending time with you.
But in addition to knowing what to talk about, you also have to be able to LISTEN and let the other person relate to you. After all, nothing is more interesting than someone who is interested in you.
SECRET 6: Do What’s Unexpected
Doing what is not expected of you can create an air of excitement and uncertainty around you. It keeps people on their feet and attentive when around you.
Of course, you shouldn’t be comical when doing the unexpected, such as suddenly shouting out a curse word or something ridiculous like that.
Instead, you have to play against expectations. For instance, instead of complimenting a girl on her looks, compliment her on her intelligence. She probably does not get a lot of compliments like that, and it will make you stand out.
Taking her out on a creative date, instead of your typical dinner-and-a-movie is unexpected as well.
When you do what’s not expected of you, you keep excitement alive.
SECRET 7: Be Hot And Cold
Emotions are what must be stimulated to make attraction work. Without emotion, attraction is impossible.
But too much of one emotion is just as bad as a lack of emotion. Feeling good all the time or feeling bad all the time causes us to stray from the person we are with.
When you alternate between hot and cold emotions, you create an emotional roller coaster that keeps things interesting and your partner interested.
Women do this all the time. They will act very interested and attracted to you, and make you feel good. Then, they’ll act like you’re not there and ignore you, and make you feel bad.
This constant alternation of good and bad feelings keeps their partner invested in them. And men can do this too.
SECRET 8: Play Hard To Get
No one ever appreciates that which comes easily to them. Women know this better than anyone. If they are “too easy,” chances are the guy will leave them after they’ve had their conquest.
The idea of playing hard to get makes the pursuer emotionally invest themselves in the outcome of their hunt.
By making a woman work for your affections, you are getting her to commit to wanting to be with you.
SECRET 1: Know What You Want