So, the first step in hitting your g-spot during sex is to know where it is! Take a look at the diagram at right, and try a “finding the g-spot exercise” first.
From here on, we’re going to assume that you (and your partner) know where your g-spot is, and how to best stimulate it to give you pleasure.
Now that that’s all taken care of – lets focus on g-spot positions. The first step is to recognize that the g-spot, or g-spot area, is small and not always in the same place on every woman. So, throughout your sex you’ll both need to be communicating what works, what feels good, what doesn’t, a little to the right, a little to the left, etc.
In the beginning, as you explore different g-spot positions, its likely best if you agree not to have orgasms. We’ve found this makes it easy to have a sense of exploration and play… it takes the pressure off performing and being “perfect” as well.
And, without further delay, here are our three favorite g-spot positions. Enjoy!
Ride ‘Em Cowboy(Woman on Top)
I have to say there’s something so sexy about a woman being on top, in charge of finding what feels the best. Really, this position is ideal because it allows the woman to control the depth, intensity, and speed. It gives you the ability to play, and explore, and notice how much more pleasure comes from subtle differences.
As you are on top, experiment with what feel’s best to you. Move, shift, tell your partner what feel’s good, rock back and forth, take it deep, keep it shallow, etc. This will likely work best if you are already aroused and hot. (This is true with all these g-spot positions)
Now, as the guy in this position, you’re not just laying back passively (thought that is fine to do – just not now!). What will help your partner most is if you tilt your pelvis as much as possible. The more you can do this, the better.
You’ll also get a great workout! : )
Unfortunately, if you are anything like me, you’ll get super tired super quick. In the beginning we used to use alot of pillows to try to angle my hips. Lately, we’ve really been enjoying something called the wedge, its a liberator shape. This small shape puts your pelvis in the perfect tilted position without you having to do any work.
I know it sounds crazy, but the small, subtle positioning this enables, makes all the difference. If you want to find out more about liberator shapes, their website is http://www.liberatorshapes.com.
Doggy Style(Crouching, Man Coming from Behind)
This is one of our favoriteg-spotpositions. Not only do you have great g-spot access, but there’s just something so primal and sexy about *&#*! from behind.
Now, guys, in this position you can take it easy and let her do all the work. In this case, ladies, use your thighs to press back and find the depth, thrust style, and position that works best for you.
However, guys, if you want to be more active, you can easily adapt this position. Push your woman down, and lay more on top of her (still coming in from behind)
Now, for the bestg-spotstimulation, position your legs outside of hers and put more of your weight forward, so you are riding her from up higher.
This puts your penis on more of a downward angle, and helps you hit her g-spot more directly. You can also experiment with having her legs more open, or more closed to see what feels best.
We’ve also been using the liberator shape – the wedge – in this position too. We found if we put that underneath my girlfriend, it gives her hips a particular tilt that totally amp things up.
Your Highness(Man Kneeling or Standing, Woman’s Legs on His Shoulders)
We love this sex position. With manyg-spotpositions you can’t look each other in the eyes. With this one, we recommend it. Also, when you want to hit theg-spot, having your legs high and wide is the secret ingredient. Sometimes putting your feet on your partner’s shoulders can be the most comfortable (it’s also just super sexy!)
Now, you can do this position in lots of ways. You can do it off your sofa, a chair, or your coffee table (we won’t tell!). Or, you can modify it to work off your bed by kneeling vs standing. The only real key to this position is that your partner is angled upward, with her legs spread wide or on your shoulders. You can achieve this combination in lots of different ways (be creative!