Why A Younger Guy Is What An Older Woman Needs


You want to date someone who appreciates you. Someone with his shit together. Someone mature, evolved. Ready to take you seriously. The problem is, you think that person has to be older than you. But you’re wrong. Just as chronological age doesn’t always “cure” one of immaturity, a man can be all of these things and still be 24, 28, 30 (depending on what you consider young). You just need to give him a chance.
Here’s Why!!
1. He’s bored with girls his own age.
If there’s one complaint I hear from younger men—and the reason they’re interested in older women, is that they’re a little tired of the same old scene and games. They’re very into the idea of spending time with a woman who brings a little more to the table—a whole world of experience and interests outside of his own. He’s not dumb because he’s 27. He’s smarter than you think and would welcome a grown-up conversation, not to mention a mature relationship.
No one can make you feel old—that’s on you. Let go of your inhibitions… and what you may discover is that the world feels a little bigger, and the night a lot younger.
2. He’s not just out to hit it and quit it.
To say men JUST want sex, especially young men, isn’t a fair assessment. They’ve been having sex for years, and it’s not like they can’t get it if they want it. They may be less inclined to marry right away or at all, perhaps, but that’s not the same as not wanting a real relationship. And many desperately do.
3. He thinks you’re hot.
Stop it with the, “Oh but he probably wants some 21-year-old chick with perfect breasts.” There will always be scores of young hot girls roaming the planet. You’re wrong to think he couldn’t be turned on by you. Guys aren’t all looking for a girl off a billboard. Men like curves—and the women who bear them with an air of self-possession and desire. Guys like pleasing women and being enjoyed by a woman who appreciates them. You know your body, what makes it tick, and what turns it on and makes it happy. He’s really, really into that.
4. He’s not hung up on age;
you are.I haven’t met a young man yet who said they would never date a woman older than him. Sure, some may be a little hesitant about how to handle or be with a woman’s children, but it’s not always a dealbreaker. But as for not liking you simply because you’re whatever age you are? Nope. Quite the opposite; he’s proud of it. You make him feel like the man he wants to be.He’s got energy and optimism to spare.
I’m not making a stamina joke here. I mean sheer energy—a bright, capable man who’s in the earlier phase of his career and life can be a thrill to be around. He’s not jaded by losses, failure, or the spectre of retirement. Any man who hates where he is in life and resents others for it is going to be a drag. But if he’s young and he’s got plans, that momentum can be inspiring. Even contagious.
5. What he lacks in money, he makes up for in resourcefulness and ambition.
If you happen to date a 25-year-old who just sold his start-up to Yahoo, then money is no issue. But for most, money is tight. My boyfriend is a musician and composer who also works a part-time job, and he doesn’t have a disposable income. But he’s scrappy and resourceful. So no, he’s not springing for big dinners or trips to St. Bart’s. But he cooks an outstanding meal. Sometimes I’ll cover the check when he’s in a tough spot and I’m feeling like sushi. But the idea that a man will ciphon off money is only as true as the person’s character, not age. A man struggling to make it knows the value of a dollar, and that alone is far more appealing than the one who throws money at you in an attempt to impress.
6. He’ll make you feel like your old self.
I don’t mean “old” as in aged, but old as in best version of you. The fun, spontaneous you. Any good relationship should do this, regardless of age. And no one can make you feel old—that’s on you. Let go of your inhibitions and run around a bit with an energetic 24- or 31-year-old, and what you may discover is that the world feels a little bigger, and the night a lot younger.

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