What Shows She’s in Love?

1. Subtle speech
When a woman loves or has
fallen in love with a man,
she usually won’t take the
initiative in pouring her
heart out and saying “I
love you,” and will instead
send out subtle messages
for you to detect.
For example, while your
group of young friends are
on the way back from
singing songs at the KTV, a
girl suddenly says to you:
“Can you help me keep this
bag of milk warm?” At this
time, men will certainly feel
very puzzled, thinking:
“Why is she asking me to
help her warm [this milk]?
And further, can the hands
really warm it?” Actually, is
already purposefully giving
you a subtle message.
2. Take initiative to
strike up a
In general, boys usually
start talking with girls, and
this can easily lead the girl
to think the boy is a lecher.
Since this is a typical way
of making conversation,
many girls tend to refuse it,
or treat the boy with
The opposite situation is
when a girl takes the
initiative to start talking
with a boy, the boy
absolutely will not say
anything like this girl is
lecherous, maybe because
he himself is already beside
himself with happiness [that
a girl is talking to him]?
Likewise, a girl taking the
initiative to talk with a boy,
aside from work situations,
is very likely that girl is
attracted to you, and is
interested in you.
Otherwise, a girl would
rather be beaten to death
than risk the kind of social
criticism that goes along
with that behavior [talking
with a boy].
3. Often ask about
your well-being
It is without a doubt that all
of us, whether meeting an
old buddy or just a normal
friend, all ask how one
another are doing, making
the kind of small talk that
that has existed for ages
that millions of people are
familiar with to show our
respect for each other.
However, most of the time it
is old men doing so without
So, if we see a situation
developing in the opposite
direction, and we see a girl
fussing over a man, for
example saying: “Why are
you just wearing such little
clothing? Such a cold day,
how do you expect others
not to worry?” may seem
like just normal politeness,
but in fact is her limitless
love and concern for you.
This is the kind of thing
that only a wife says to her
husband and for her to say
it to you now, is the
implications are naturally
4. Making something
out of nothing
When a guy likes a girl, he
will be so nervous his nose
will bleed, uncontrollably,
yet with just a few words,
that girl can effortlessly
stop the nosebleed that
could not be stopped. This
world is very strange, that
there can be this kind of
kung fu, it truly make us
feel so powerless.
Similarly, when a girl likes a
boy, there will be quite a
few things you could never
imagine that will happen to
you. For example, if a girl
suddenly turn to you and
ask: “When do you need
me to return that book you
lent me? I’m almost done
but I’d like to read more, do
you have any other books,
like this, similar to this,
others, whatever, anything
is fine.” This sort of thing,
definitely will make you
5. Trance-like
Some people say that
whenever a girl likes a
man, there is always
something called hormones
that will cause mischief,
something secreted on a
woman’s body, often
causing trouble for women
making them unable to
control themselves. No
matter matter how hard she
tries, she will get closer to
the man she likes. During
this time, however, a girl
can’t get too close or other
people will suspect that
their relationship isn’t
proper. But if she is too far
away, she won’t be able to
smell that man’s
mesmerizing scent.
So, this kind of distance
really makes things
ambiguous, and in this
state of ambiguity, a
trance-like expression can
be revealing. So when you
see someone prompt a girl
to talk and it takes forever
for her to react, it is
exactly that mischief at
6. Attentively ask you
All along Chinese people
have liked to ask about
other people’s private
affairs, asking about how
this family’s kids got into
trouble or why that family’s
kid got into a fight. This is
nothing to be surprised
about, but when your friend
tells you that there is often
someone asking them about
your life, your information
and situation, you must not
not always think this is just
other people being nosy,
especially if the other
person is a man, because it
may mean he has bad
intentions and wants to ruin
On the other hand, if it is a
girl, a delicate girl, then
your caution is
unnecessary. With this,
there is only one
possibility: She has already
begun to like you, only
except she is not yet ready
to say so, and is just a
prelude to a secret love.
7. Winking
After having used the many
methods above, a woman
starts to make use of a
deadly weapon – winking.
This is a an oft-used
weapon of devastating
power that women use,
making even the most
powerful men defenseless.
Every girl will do
everything she can to grab
hold of her Prince
Charming, sparing no effort
and exhausting all her the
resources she can spare.objective: to use her eyes
to accomplish the final
mission. Although this is an
often-discussed problem,
but how many men can take
this kind of seduction?
When a woman throws her
head back at you like that,
even a great hero would be
8. A shy, red face
If we say a man gets
nervous around a woman,
that a nosebleed is a
normal greeting gift he
gives her, then a girl
meeting a man she likes will
be so shy that her face
turns red, all the way to
her ears, her entire face
flushed, just like a bright
shiny spring tomato making
you full of sentimental
feelings. You this way
means you have absolutely
fallen into women’s trap,
because Sunzi’s “The Art
of War” has a section that
reads “Allow somebody
more latitude at first to
keep a tighter rein later
on,” which talks about this
very thing.
Sometimes, she can fall
back in retreat and attack
your defenses’ weakest
point at the same time,
because she can always
find your most weakest
point on your body. This is
many men’s biggest pitfall.
9. Giving gifts
When the time is right, a
girl will always give gifts to
a guy she likes. Sometimes
it’s a T-shirt, other times it
might be a coat, or maybe
that thing that men put so
much importance on, a
wristwatch. As a symbol of
a man’s age a wristwatch
has already gone out of
fashion, but in the eyes of
today’s women, it’s still a
great gift, because the men
who receive a wristwatch
already know that it is a
very unusual/special gift
packed full of meaning.
Because the wristwatch
includes the girl’s true
feelings, it will be very
natural for the relationship
to begin.
So, when a girl gives a man
the something at the
appropriate time, a man will
understand that you have
great affection for him.
10. “Sa
jiao” [behaving like a
spoiled child] in front
of you
Women who act like spoiled
children has been talked
about many times. If we say
this behavior is the mark of
an open/loose woman, it
seems a little like depriving
other women of being able
to do this. To put it another
way, if you act like a
spoiled child in front of the
man you like then you’re
already quite open enough.
On the same note, a girl
who knows how to act like a
spoiled child can easily get
pity from a man. This lets a
woman defeat a man’s best
defenses. For example, if
you say “Hey let’s go eat!”
and then add in a few whiny
baby-like noises. Or, if you
refuse still, she’ll grab you
and pull your clothes and
say “Let’s goooo, let’s
goooo, just for a bit!” so in
the end, you’ll end up going
after all.


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