UNDERSTANDING MEN!


Men: perhaps the most
frustrating of all the
beasts. Will we women ever
truly understand their
thoughts? Is it possible for
us to think from their point
of view? Should we be
careful what we wish for?
All jokes aside, perhaps if
women start thinking like
men, it would make this
whole man/woman
relationship a bit easier.
So, the next time your man
does something that
frustrates you, try thinking
like he does.
Rarely do men think
about writing us sweet
little love notes or cards
or sending us flowers.
You know, the stuff that
we women eat up? So,
the next time you get
frustrated with your man
about his lack of
romanticism, remember
that men don’t always
think like this. What do
they think about? They
may wonder why their
sex lives are not too hot
(hmm, could the love
notes or flowers possibly
fix this?). You see, they
don’t sweat the small
stuff, including reminding
you with cute little things
just how much they love
you. The reason for their
apparent lack of
attention to these small
gestures is that their
idea of “romantic” is
often different than ours.
The next time you start
to share with your guy
that you would love to
have flowers sent to you
at work, don’t sweat it if
he doesn’t respond to
you immediately. He
probably has other
things on his mind. Plus,
he may be researching
information about
relationship advice just
as you are, so give him
some time to figure out
what women really want.
Does your man seem
disinterested when you
are trying to talk to him
about something
important to you? Do you
feel that you two have a
problem and you wish to
talk about it? Does he
seem less than thrilled
when you insist you both
must talk about the issue
right there and then?
Men, more often than
not, prefer to keep their
problems to themselves
and think about them for
a while. It doesn’t mean
your man is incapable of
communicating with you.
It just means that he
would rather process the
situation before saying
anything. More often than
not, a man will want to
come up with something
concrete to say or a
specific solution to a
problem, rather than just
discussing several
different options with
you. Though we women
think about our problems
out loud and wish to
discuss every little
aspect of an issue, that
doesn’t mean men have
to do the same. When it
comes down to
communicating, give him
some space. When he is
ready to talk to you
about an issue, allow him
to approach you. Remind
yourself that you are two
different creatures and
when it comes down to it,
men and women often
have a very different
style of communication.
Don’t be offended when
you don’t get exactly the
response you would
expect or desire. Let’s
say you come down the
stairs modeling your
sexiest dress for
summer and you notice a
smirk on your man’s face
as he is staring straight
at you with that sexy
grin of his. You instantly
begin thinking that he
must be in deep thought
about how hot you look
and how he is the
luckiest man alive to
have even met you.
Then you glance over
your shoulder and notice
the game is on. That
smirk on his face wasn’t
even for you! You start
to get angry, wondering
how he could not notice
you in this dress! After
all, you are looking good!
Ladies, don’t let it get to
you. This is why
understanding men is
important in
relationships. That might
have been a rather
extreme example, but
men are not always going
to respond to something
the way we hope they
would. Don’t take it
personally; just
remember that men don’t
always think about things
like we do. They
sometimes forget, as we
sometimes do, that what
they see as relatively
trivial is often more
important to us. It
doesn’t mean that he
doesn’t adore you or
that he thinks you look
horrible in the dress. It
just means that your
gorgeous new dress may
have to wait until half-
time of the game to get
the attention you feel it
deserves.
Let’s talk sex and the
man’s way of thinking.
Okay, ladies I know this
may be a sensitive
subject. Remember that
old rumor that came
about in many dating
advice for women
columns? It said that men
think about sex every
seven seconds. Well, it
is just that — a rumor.
According to the Kinsey
Institute, 54 percent of
men think about sex
once or several times a
day, 43 percent think
about it several times a
month or at least once a
week, and four percent
think about it only once a
month. So while we ladies
were under the
impression that men only
have a one track mind
about this particular
subject, we were most
likely mistaken. The next
time you complain that
your husband or
boyfriend only has one
thing on his mind, you
may want to think again
about what you are
saying. Most likely it isn’t
true. Just keep in mind
how great it is that your
man can’t keep his hands
off you — for him it’s
likely one of the most
profound ways of
expressing his love for
you.
What men want isn’t easy
to figure out. The next time
you are upset with your
guy, try thinking about it
the way he would. Use
these relationship tips to
remember some simple
ways men think.
that knowledge in your
relationship. It may make
life much easier!
Quick Tips:
A man may not
immediately notice your
new haircut. Remind
yourself that haircuts
aren’t as important to
him.
Men may not notice
things around the house
to clean. It isn’t
necessarily because he
doesn’t want to pitch in
and help; sometimes it’s
honestly because he
doesn’t think the house
is dirty

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