WHAT MEN REALLY WANT!!


1. Men want a fun and
exciting companion.
There are things that a
man will discuss with a
woman if the level of
communication and trust
has been established.
Sharing activities can also
be a healthy way to build
relationships. Exciting to
some men may mean going
to the library together. So,
what I recommend is know
what you enjoy and find
men who enjoy those
activities (or at least, a
subset of those activities).
If women spend more time
with men sharing some
activities each week they
are likely to get along
better with the men in their
lives.
2. Men want
consistent, frequent,
passionate sex (or hot
sex). Men get turned on
by different things that a
woman does. A woman
wants to know she’s “the
only one he loves” and
that he digs her. A man
wants his partner to be a
bit of a lusty animal in bed
– thus the high
subscription rate among
men to magazines that are
somewhat exploitive of
women. A woman that
delivers in the bedroom
will, more often than not,
get what she wants from
her man – a dedicated
lover. I hate to be crass,
but it’s reality. Smart
women look at this and
figure out how to use it to
build mutual happiness. A
woman who is more vocal in
bed, and carries the
attitude that goes with it, is
likely to get a lot back from
her man, as well. On the
other hand, a woman who
is frigid and uses sex as a
manipulation tool is likely to
receive games right back.
The main thing isn’t so
much experimentation
though – please don’t take
this the wrong way. It is
about creativity, bonding,
and emotional intimacy.
Men bond through being
physically connected. The
act of making love is how a
man feels that you love
him. Withhold this, and you
are withholding your love,
to a man. Men want to
connect with the physical
act, because the act of
release during sex is how
a man most feels connected
to you. It is the “feeling of
being connected” he most
seeks.By the way, some men
living by their animal
instinct or Ego’s rules
enjoy the conquest. We can
help curb this tendency by
being aware and learning
as much as possible about
each other prior to
becoming physical. Women
can help improve their
sexual relationships by
offering some spice and
also helping men
understand the importance
of romance, ambience, and
setting a good mood (thus
helping her meet her own
need to “heat-up” first).
3. Men want to share
meals with you,
especially when you
prepare the meal. I
personally enjoy cooking a
meal together and going
out and enjoying a nice
meal together. Just as much
as I do not expect a
woman to cook every meal
for us, I also appreciate it
when she does. It is also
nice when a woman
appreciates when her man
cooks for her. Women who
share their meals with their
partner are improving the
quality time they spend
together and building a
better bond. A man who
expects his woman to cook
every meal might improve
his relationship by offering
to clean-up dishes or
surprising his woman with a
home-cooked meal of his
own. Many men just take
their women out to dinner
to show their appreciation
(thus, the reason Mother’s
Day brunches are so
expensive!). Communication
about the importance of
cooperation and sharing of
all aspects of the meal can
help improve problems in
this area. So, especially,
men appreciate when you
FEED THEM. Maybe it
sounds old-fashioned, but
the old adage, “the best
way to a man’s heart is
through his stomach” has
some value.
4. Men want you to
support them in their
work and help boost
their confidence. Note:
Women who understand
men do not put them down.
Women who understand
this ask men questions
about their career and let
them know “you can do it,
baby!” In return, women
will find their man equally
supportive because she
understands him and does
things to let him know she’s
a believer. Call it a case of
mutual admiration.
5. Men want you to
look great (your very
best). Just go to a
sporting event (like a
football game or baseball
game) and check out the
player’s wives and
girlfriends. They are often
quite nice looking with top-
shape bodies. Were they
chosen for their looks,
personality, money, or
what? Why are so few of
these women physically
ugly? Because the sports-
stars attract good-looking
women due to their POWER
status and making high
amounts of money (two
things women want besides
confidence and a sense of
humor).
Men don’t. Men just
know what they like. The
funny thing is that women
with a .7 to 1 waist to hip
ratio tend to attract men
easier than women without
that ratio. So, a woman may
be more robust, like
Marilyn Monroe was, and
still attract men like crazy,
compared to the little
skinny waifs who are
models and movie stars in
our present era.
When I write that men want
you to look great it means
simply this: look the very
best you can for your size,
type, and build. Then carry
it with confidence. she is
confident, she already
knows and doesn’t have to
ask.
6. Men need time alone 2 spend with their “boyz”,sports n hobbies!! Thats what we want! have to be a
trophy doll. But if you think
men don’t choose their
partners largely by the
way they look, think again.
Men want women to look
great! It may even be a
double-standard. Looking
great does not mean you
have to look like
superstars. I point them
out because of society’s
general status symbols,
but please consider our
perspective of “how we
look” isn’t really more
important than a societal
viewpoint of what looks
best. Certainly, watching
weight, eating and drinking
healthy food and water,
and working out a few
times a week also has
benefits to our own
emotional, mental, physical
and spiritual health. It is
important to love our body.
When we love our body,
why shouldn’t our partner
love it, too? Even if you
are “working on it,”
sending loving thoughts to
your body will help you
achieve physical goals and
happiness more than
sending out negative
thoughts. Our confidence is
attractive to most people,
and it counts in looks, too.
Confidence is sexy. And
men love sexy women. Why
did Marilyn Monroe have
such popularity? Because
she was sexy. So, do your
best to look great, stay in
shape, dress attractively,
and display a confident and
sexy attitude. Watch how
much more attention you’ll
receive from the man in
your life.
For women who don’t have
perfect model bodies, I had
a woman ask me this
recently and all I can say
is what Duke Ellington said
re: life: “Do the very best
you can with what you’ve
got.” I think you’ll find a
man who will appreciate
that effort you put out.
6. Men want you to
listen to them and
treat them with
respect. I’ve recently
heard a woman say that
she felt men were not
respecting her, but then a
few moments later used the
phrase “well you men …” in
her speech. This indicates
a tendency towards
negatively judging men.
Sometimes, we get back
what we give out, and what
we say to each other DOES
matter.
Instead, when we give
love, kindness, and
respect, we will experience
the law of abundance in
action. Men listen
differently than women do.
Women tend to nod their
head and make comments,
such as “ah, uh-huh, wow,
yes, right” during
conversation to indicate
they are listening and
involved. Men tend to listen
like a wall, quietly
observing until the other
person finishes their
statement. Being sensitive
to this difference in how
men and women
communicate (and adapting,
as appropriate) will
improve communication
between partners.
7. Men need you to
give them private time
to be left alone, to
spend on hobbies and
sports, and to spend
time with other men.
Some men need a few
minutes to unwind when
they walk in the door
before sharing the day’s
challenges. Some women
need this space, too, but
I’ve noticed that most
women I’ve dated prefer to
launch into the daily
review, while I’d really just
like a hug, a kiss, and then
some quiet space for a few
minutes to unwind prior to
reviewing the day together.
Do what works best for
your relationship. I find
that a sincere and
compassionately deep hug
upon greeting is nice,
followed by a thirty-second
kiss sometime in the next
few minutes, helps re-
establish that “connected”
feeling.
Did I just say 30 second
kiss? Yes, I did. Why?
Because a peck kiss does
nothing to establish nor
maintain romance. It
requires a longer kiss to
do that. So, use your
kissing to your advantage
and keep the passion alive
between you!
I remember a friend telling
me about his girlfriend, how
she tried to be his “Ms.
Right” by becoming the
woman he wanted, rather
than developing some
interests of her own.
Perhaps, she’d be married
to this man, today, had she
simply had some of her own
interests and creating
abundant living in her own
life. It can also be valuable
to take time apart, once in
a while, to reinforce and
remind each other of your
bond that hold you
together.
Perhaps, by not spending
too much time together, we
may realize why someone
coined the phrase
“absence makes the heart
grow fonder.”

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