ART OF SEDUCTION {PART 2}


5. STIR ANXIETY-“A perfectly satisfied
person cannot be seduced.
Tension and disharmony
must be instilled in your
targets’ minds. Stir within
them feelings of discontent,
an unhappiness with their
circumstances and
themselves. The feeling of
inadequacy that you create
will give you space to
insinuate yourself, to make
Create a need—stir
anxiety and discontent
them see you as the
answer to their problems.
Pain and anxiety are the
proper precursors to
pleasure. Learn to
manufacture the need that
you can fill.”
6. MASTER THE ART OF INSINUATION-“Making your targets feel
dissatisfied and in need of
your attention is essential,
but if you are too obvious,
they will see through you
and grow defensive. There
is no known defense,
however, against
insinuation—the art of
planting ideas in people’s
minds by dropping hints
that take root days later,
even appearing to them as
their own idea. Create a
sublanguage—bold
statement followed by
retraction and apology,
ambiguous comments, banal
talk combined with alluring
glances—that enters the
target’s unconscious to
convey your real meaning.
Make everything
suggestive.”
7. ENTER THEIR SPIRIT-“Most people are locked in
their own worlds, making
them stubborn and hard to
persuade. The way to lure
them out of their shell and
set up your seduction is to
enter their spirit. Play by
their rules, enjoy what they
enjoy, adapt yourself to
their moods. In doing so
you will stroke their deep-
rooted narcissism and
lower their defenses.
Indulge your targets’
every move and whim,
giving them nothing to react
against or resist.”
8. CREATE TEMPTATION-“Lure the target deep into
your seduction by creating
the proper temptation: a
glimpse of the pleasures to
come. As the serpent
tempted Eve with the
promise of forbidden
knowledge, you must
awaken a desire in your
targets that they cannot
control. Find that weakness
of theirs, that fantasy that
has yet to be realized, and
hint that you can lead them
toward it. The key is to
keep it vague. Stimulate a
curiosity stronger than the
doubts and anxieties that
go with it, and they will
follow you.”
9. KEEP THEM IN SUSPENSE
“The moment people feel
they know what to expect
from you, your spell on
them is broken. More: You
have ceded them power.
The only way to lead the
seduced along and keep
the upper hand is to create
suspense, a calculated
surprise. Doing something
they do not expect from
you will give them a
delightful sense of
spontaneity—they will not
be able to foresee what
comes next. You are
always one step ahead and
in control. Give the victim a
thrill with a sudden change
of direction.”

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